The sensitivity of psychotherapists in understanding others is connected to a deep capacity for both intimacy and vulnerability. The three papers by Lauren Levine, Deborah Dowd, and Sharon Ziv Beiman present clinical experiences with women patients that touch deep areas of openness for patient and analyst alike. Through their generous and evocative material, and the invitation of a male discussant, all parties are drawn into a powerful sense of mutual vulnerability. Painful mis-attunements occur and are courageously addressed by the writers. The discussion uses the poetic allusion, to the cracks in everything, as the necessary basis for the light of analytic relatedness and love to come into being.