This chapter further develops the complex meanings of duty of memory by showing how in family memory transmission there is also a reworking of memory contents, family relationships and also of what counts as valuable and memorable within a society. My aim here is to frame a sense of legacy which is not passive, but which implies an active relationship between generations. In this chapter, the focus is on the children of left-wing guerrilleros and activists who question their parents’ displacement of family life during the 1970s and 1980s in the name of the causa. Although they were a minority among these book interviewees, they were pointing at an important aspect of family memories. Their narratives of loss are embedded in the memory (promoted by human rights organizations) of the traumatic national past of state violence, but expressed through the voice of family collapse and private loss. They tell a different story to that of the memoria militante or even to those stories told in the previous chapter, complicating the post-dictatorial reconstruction of the past. Together, they divest memory of any teleological sense, and open gaps and fissures in any attempt to construct representations of the past.